So, it's January 2011. A new year, with new resolutions. Or, if you don't believe in new year's resolutions, at least there is the chance to enjoy the Sydney summer, what with its heat, humidity, and people sporting skin-cancer-inducing tans from their weekends at the beach.
It's probably a good time to recap on my top five memories of 2010, so here goes:
5) Work can be fun!
I've worked at the University for nine whole years now, and none of them were as awesome as the last. Don't get me wrong, work is still work and I'm not so enthusiastic as to take up residence in the office, but a couple of factors made it worthwhile for me to get up and get to the daily grind.
The people, for one. The staff turnover rate is still high and I question whether the organised events were successful (cough cough xmas party), but the relationships seemed to have truly developed in the past year, enough that it feels like more of a community instead of just small "teams" of people under one roof. Or maybe it's just me.
Sporting events are good. Especially when it branches across the whole workplace, because in all seriousness there is a good chance that I wouldn't ever have talked to a bunch of the badminton players, eg. those that I don't work close to. Because there usually isn't a reason to. I have thoroughly enjoyed the experience though, and I'm glad I started playing badminton when I did. If you're reading this, I recommend you sign up to some sort of social/sporting event in your office. You might not care about those people now, but give them a chance, you may be surprised!
The other thing that made work bearable (enjoyable?) was my rather haphazard discovery that I knew how to work on databases. Those who know me will know that I have no previous programming experience, yet somehow I found myself developing enhancements and modules to the existing application database at work to the extent that it is now a crutch in our daily operations. It's just simple stuff in Access, but I'm proud of it, a little of which is a good thing. In short, learning new skills is fun, and google is an awesome teacher.
4) Gleek
It's official. Season 1 got me interested, but Season 2 ep 3 completely sold me. What is this, a show for teenagers that deals with issues like teen pregnancies, coming out, growing up with disabilities, bullying, and now religion? Not just religion, but a thoughtful if brief dialogue about faith, atheism, and the friction between homosexuality and the church.
Fine. It's camp. There is more singing than acting. The production isn't perfect (though it's actually very well done for something that has to be filmed weekly) and the plot is occasionally just whack. But for all its drawbacks, the show (sometimes) has heart, and courage to go where other mainstream shows won't even dream of going. If kids are watching this, fantastic. They probably aren't being made to think about these serious issues any other way.
Did I tell you? I'm now a total Gleek.
3) Marriage Equality rallies
Ah yes, these. I'm no activist. With the development of social networking, I'm not even sure that traditional offline activist-y stuff even work. But somehow, as I stood there in the midst of an attentive crowd trying to catch the words of various politicians and community spokespeople, I felt both saddened and heartened at the same time.
It was a shame that none of my heterosexual friends came with me to support the cause (even if the yelling is just falling on deaf ears). While I was out there in a crowd of progressive people gay and straight, I felt strangely isolated. It struck me that a lot of my friends are getting married. Even my long-term flatmates are now married to each other. And there I was wondering if any of them respect my desire to be able to do the same. Or is it friends with gay guy = OK, but support marriage equality = not OK?
Which makes me even more appreciative of the people who would get out of their houses and away from their weekend activities on a Saturday morning to rally for a cause that isn't even innovative or groundbreaking in the developed Western hemisphere. That's right, we're just catching up - who would even bother? Well apparently a healthy crowd of a couple of thousand progressive-minded people in Sydney care, and more in Melbourne, Brisbane, Canberra, Adelaide, all across Australia. Heartwarming, to be sure.
2) Do I dare to dream?
A crush that never quite developed into anything. This one was different though, because for a while we were fairly close and in him I saw something that I had been missing for a long time - the right to dream and the will to fight for that dream.
It rocked the foundations of my world when I realised that I hadn't done anything "worthwhile" with my life for a couple of years. I was an emotional wreck. Not a pleasant memory, but beneficial.
Work + games (by games I mean mostly WoW) are occasionally good, but they are easy traps to fall into. It was time travel the world, and find a purpose (thanks Avenue Q for that reference). I stopped gaming for a few months - a lifetime for me - did the Europe trip, and whilst no, I still haven't found a singular purpose to propel myself towards, I do have somewhat of a two-year plan now. Yuk, that sounds like something from a self-help book, someone slap me now!
I won't ever quit my games, but it was most certainly a great wake-up call for me to get out there and make sure I'm always challenging the status quo.
1) Trip to Europe
And that leads to the most memorable experience of 2010. I'm not sure you can understand how awesome this was for me. The trip was by no means perfect, but the fact that I was there in Europe, visiting these cities that I had wanted to visit since I was young, that was enough.
Paris, at once beautiful yet cold, seemingly geared more towards tourists who spend a night or two there and no longer. London, far too crowded and not my favourite place, but the hospitality of my friends made this stop great. Madrid, where I had no expectations of grandeur but found more to love than anywhere else. Berlin, where I met a fantastic bunch of good-looking people and was never in bed before the sun rose. Amsterdam, Rotterdam, Tilburg, my friends' hometowns with architecture that has lasted the centuries.
I'll have to go back there, maybe in a couple of years.
Honorable Mention: this blog
Another concept that I've never really reconciled my personality with is the diary. Why put thoughts on paper when you don't have to? The more secrets you have, the more easily you can manipulate people, the better off you are.
This blog flies in the face of that belief. It was more experimental than anything, a way to express my ideas without having to bore people who didn't actually want to know. It eventually became a bit of a diary with my Europe trip.
It's been periodically active and inactive, and even this post doesn't guarantee that I'll continue posting in the future. It has, however, been a great outlet for my thoughts and a fair bit of fun. Should I ever feel the need to vomit text onto a webpage, I'll be back :)
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